> This is a difficult and rather touchy situation. > I have a close friend who smokes, and is aware that > since I'm a singer, this cannot be good for me. > Unfortunately, I get the sense that as part of > accepting my friend, I have to accept second hand > smoke along the way, and have sort of just put up > with it.
How does your friend's smoking affect you? Surely you don't go over to her house or anything like that... if you meet her in other places, and if she is thoughtful enough not to smoke around you or to do so only outdoors and downwind, does it negatively impact your singing?
As for the pianists, I don't find it at all amusing that people you consider your friends would smoke around you and expect you to put up with it. Stand up for yourself! Have you ever spent two or three months smoke-free, to know what your voice could be without the damage of secondhand smoke? I would be worried, if I were you...
Isabelle B.
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