My whole point to this long rant is that I don't think it's fair for some people to expect that all singers should want to put "all their eggs in one basket". I think the best advice one can give is to really be honest with yourself and find a situation that works right for you. Don't feel like you have to do things one way because others say that's how it should be. Try to be open to trying different things, you may be surprised!

Cheers
Craig, Burnaby BC