Hi Christine, He didn't say we'd be through. (He'd better not!):-) It's just that he's concerned with household budget. He has already put me through nursing school, which wasn't easy. We have since then developed a easy lifestyle with lots of money-consuming activities. (Luxury, I know. Spoilt I am! ;-)) I'd have to keep working if i'd go back to school, which is ok with me. But we'd have to make some lifestyle-changes and he's not all too happy about that. (we wouldn't be poor, though!) I really don't think he takes me all that serious. He does like and support my singing and likes the idea of me bringing home 'musical' money someday, but actually preparing to actually do it.... well, takes a little getting used to! :-)) Nande
> You didn't really say what he's saying - is he saying, "you do this and we're > thru" or "you do this and I won't be very happy," or "I have concerns that > there is going to be too much financial pressure on me." So I don't know > what he's saying that you should or should not be listening to. > > If you can offer a plan - I'll take a part time job, I will contribute X > number of dollars per month to our household income, this will be for X > period of time, after which I can increase my contribution - perhaps that can > assuage his fears. > > Good luck! > > Christine Thomas > "For men are strong where we are weak ... they always think before they > speak." > (What fun is THAT?)
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