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Ruth Anderman-Lanza 732-302-2160
-----Original Message----- From: Mezzoid-at-aol.com [mailto:Mezzoid-at-aol.com] Sent: Thursday, January 13, 2000 5:39 PM To: vocalist Subject: Re: wedding songs
In a message dated 01/13/2000 4:35:15 PM Central Standard Time, kandahar-at-ican.net writes:
<< The unfortunate part of this arrangement is that these relatives don't
all fully appreciate the value of my efforts. I'm not sure they always realize that if I'm not charging, this is their gift!! >>
I recently sang my sister's wedding, which I planned 6 months in advance, including mailing the music to the organist, discussing it with him on the phone, setting up rehearsal time, mailing a CD of instrumental music to my sister for her to pick out the processional/recessional, and bringing a friend with me (as my "date") who would help me sing the service music, and my mother said to me a few days before the wedding:
"Christine, I will give you $100 to put into a card for Caroline so that the
relatives will think you gave her something. Otherwise they will think you are cheap."
ARGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Chris Thomas Mezzo-Soprano Wauwatosa, WI
"I love to sing-a, about the moon-a and the June-a and the spring-a"
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